Saturday, October 22, 2005

Cancer

I had been told in June, but test results have shown that, beyond a doubt, my father has throat cancer. He'll be going in for chemotherapy five times a week for the next seven weeks. So far, he's refusing to quite smoking or drinking. And considering his demanding work hours, I'm rather confused as to how expects to continue with his job. But he has always worked, and I can't see him giving it up. His father died of throat cancer before I was born.

My grandmother also has breast cancer, which was discovered several months ago. She's in chemo as well, but she's doing pretty well emotionally. I believe she said to my mother that she "didn't know what was wrong" with her. She felt that she should be depressed and terribly sad, but was instead feeling very optimistic. Her husband died of colon cancer when I was six.

4 Comments:

Blogger Katilina said...

I'm sorry to hear such bad news. You seem to have a family of troopers, though, and hopefully they will pull through ok.

1:46 PM, October 23, 2005  
Blogger Garn said...

Hey guy, obviously I can understand to a certain extent your situation. If there's anything I can say to make it easier is that the only thing you can do is let fate unwind as it will. Take it easy bro, cya in the room we frequent.

9:39 PM, October 23, 2005  
Blogger Issha Marie said...

I'm sorry... I had no idea... :-(

You know what I find amazing and admirable? The fact that despite his condition, your father refuses to give up aspects of his life that has been the norm for him for such a long time...

and your family history...

the fact that they were able to deal with... everything... you've got to admire that. i can't even begin to comprehend what they all went through... and what you must be going through...

4:37 PM, October 25, 2005  
Blogger Issha Marie said...

yes... i will most certainly admit to that... and i agree completely...

i don't know him or anything but... what if he's harbouring this in his head: "why give it up when i have this condition anyway?"...

a close friend of mine lost her older sister to cancer... there were times when she succumbed to that sort of mentality... so... maybe, on a small scale... that's how your dad feels...

i realize this is a very personal issue and i apologize for somewhat intruding... i wish you and your family the best matt... but... i believe everything has a way of working out in the end...

<3

10:36 PM, October 25, 2005  

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